Leja's best rimming tips
It's time to talk about rimming!
Also known as ass licking, analingus, rim job - involves licking, sucking, kissing, penetrating with a tongue, or otherwise orally stimulating your partner's anus.
It's a favorite activity of many humans of all sexual orientations and gender identities, either as a part of foreplay, introduction to anal, or as a standalone activity.
Like all bedroom activities, rimming should be done between the consenting partner. Have a conversation with your partner about your expectations, wishes, and desires before you delve into it, especially if it is your first time.
Know the risks - the person getting rimmed is pretty safe. If you’re an ass eater, your risks are greater for several diseases, ranging from less to more serious. And know that even cleaned ass can transmit such a thing. Do what you do and accept the responsibility of getting frequent sexually transmitted infection tests.
To avoid any unwanted situations, make sure you're clean back there so start with a shower or bath and clean yourself with soap. Use unscented if you're partner likes the smell of your skin. It's easier if you're hairless.
However, if it happens, remember that it's not the end of the world. It happens to all of us. Laugh it out and continue.
If you choose to douche. Take your time with it. Douching is recommended for a long rimming session - and if you want a nice long session, you might need a nice long cleaning session before it. And remember to not start rimming as soon as you’re finished douching.
Onto the more fun stuff - when you rim someone use a lot of saliva. This is crucial.
I usually start with several ''ice cream licking'' motions with my tongue
Try breaking the licking ''routine'' with soft blows, both colder and warmer air.
Try the up and down motion with your open tongue. Focus on the anus and the area surrounding it.
Try doing a circular motion around the anus and the area surrounding it.
Try penetrating them with your tongue. Form a slightly more pointy shape with your tongue and start penetrating.
Try kissing the anus. Again, use a lot of saliva.
Try doing crazy patterns with your tongue. Patterns like: dots, slow long strokes, quick strokes, stars, circles from smaller to larger, stars.
Try alternating your tongue from flat to narrower part.
If you get tired, do all these things with your finger and then switch back to your tongue.
My favorite rimming position is when I'm on my back, grabbing my ankles and Luka spreads my cheeks and slides his tongue in. Try it, maybe it's gonna be your favorite too.
What Luka often does is inserts his thumb into my p... to stimulate my G-spot, while he rubs my cl1t with his middle and index finger. This feels amazing for me.
We sometimes rim ourselves with edible lube.
If you're a penis owner try masturbating while receiving a rim job. The giver can massage your balls or perineum too.
If you're a penis owner, just when you're about to finish - tell your partner to switch sides and start giving you a blow job while massaging your prostate with a finger.
If you're a penis owner, the giver can lick your perineum.
Some folks like the beard on their ass. Some don't. Ask.
Both sides. Get vocal if you like it. It makes other side more relaxed and more turned on. You can say it or just let out groans and moans.
Hope you like my tips and will use them next time you rim or get rimmed!
Leja