Sex blanket review & ideas for messy sex | FBS #19
Why did we decide to get a sex blanket...?
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Sex blanket review & ideas for messy sex
In this episode, we talk about a mess that pushed us to try out a sex blanket (this one).
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We also published two more episodes:
How to use a sex machine & what positions to try ( podcast )
How to mount a sex swing: sex swing we used in the video is Sportsheets Door Jam Sex Swing
Tantaly Britney
Luka tried Tantaly's Britney doll, a doll that costs $300 and weighs 29 LBS.
What is pet play?
Pet play is a thing between human adults of any gender and specifically a power dynamic and way for people to lose themselves in a specific headspace.
When you become a pet, you take on aspects of the animal you became. If you’re a puppy, you’ll bark and beg. If you’re a kitty you’ll meow and lick milk from a bowl. Etc...
There are various reasons why people enjoy petplay and they can be sexual and non-sexual.
What makes pet play attractive to some is the D/s aspect of the whole thing, since pets are owned. To some is the humiliating aspect, since pets eat from the bowl, piss outside,... To some is the bondage aspect since pets are often lead on leashes, tied to posts while they wait, etc… Some like every aspect of it.
Often, pet play is not sexual. Just taking a role of an animal helps people get rid of the stress from everyday lives. It allows them to be and act like they usually can’t.
What to do or how to try pet play?
🐶 Dress up like the animal you’re becoming
🐶 Act like that animal
🐶 Learn tricks
🐶 Eat
🐶 Be walked around on a leash
🐶 Play with your toys or with your owner
🐶 Be groomed
🐶 Go to events
Pet play can be another way to bond with your partner. Since pets can’t talk, you communicate through looks, sounds, or body language which in the end results in a deeper connection, during and after the play.
Good thing is that for this to try you do not have to be a seasoned kinkster. Pet play is easy to explore, fun, and easy to try.
13+ unique sex toys for the collector who has everything
Super Smash Cache shares a list of unique toys.
We really liked these two episodes from Justin Lehmiller's podcast:
What is creative monogamy? & How to enjoy shame-free sex?
Sexy bites
🍆 A California shoplifter attempting to steal a 30 inch sex toy wound up getting screwed
🛑 Republicans introduce 'Age Verification' bill in Arkansas
When you wax or shave your privates and still NO sex
Lovehoney’s 2023 sex map
Every year, Lovehoney releases its annual Sex Map, which gives us a peek into the sex lives of couples around the country.
The map is made using Lovehoney’s data from 2022 sales figures, a global survey, and a global expert network’s predictions for emerging Sex Trends.
This year, the 2023 Sex Map reveals all the kinky preferences of folks from different cities and states that you’ve been dying to know, with some surprising statistics.
3 sex and mindfulness apps for your pleasure
Jenna Owsianik shares 3 apps for working on sexual mindfulness.
3 the most common concerns gefore purchasing latex
Anoeses, a really-fucking-awesome brand, addresses 3 most common concers folks have when buying latex.
How to choke in bed (as safe as possible)
Cliterally The Best shared tips on choking, and since a lot of us like doing it, it is important to do it safely.
The clitoral 'erection'
The Cunning Linctus talks about clitors erections.
"WTF are you talking about Thomas? A 'Clitoral Erection'? Guys have erections - we all know about that and seen them. But a 'clit' is just the size of a pea, isn't it? How can a clit have an 'erection'?"
The secret of scolding
Scolding is like foreplay for spankos, words that can kindle our internal erotic fire, and make our kinky minds tingle. And I often hear folks wishing they had more of it.
HPB Doro Plus
We also tried the redesigned and now anal-safe Doro Plus. Doro Plus is a remote controlled butt plug.
HPB Joi
Leja tried Joi, which is a licking vibrator? :)
Cum together while I clench my cunt
A short story by Super Smash Cache.
How to have great period sex?
Gigi Engle shared her tips for period sex in a Substack post/video .
Owners of used sex toy company swear it's not gross
The founders of Squeaky Clean Toys know that their business model raises some questions — but there's a real demand for lightly used dildos and buttplugs.
9 rules for talking about sex with your partner
Great article from Vanessa Marin for Time Magazine - about navigating sex-related conversations with your partner:
5 top sex trends for 2023
We stumbled onto this article about things that are most-likely going to become (or stay) trendy in 2023.
Raithor Dragon
Raithor Dragon is made by New Zealand based maker, Erotic Effect.
Crafted to bring all your scaly fantasies to life, Raithor has both the looks and texture to get you were you want to go!
The curved shaft is designed to stimulate the prostate or G-spot, and the large flared based makes it safe for both anal and vaginal use.
Raithor also fits a strapon ring for use with a partner.
Koi
This week in creator corner we have Koi, a Seattle-based creator.
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