The secret behind all great blowjobs

How to approach a blowjob and how to deliver a legendary experience.

Sucks, licks, and gentle nibbles, when it comes to sex, a good blow job is hard to beat.

Get it right and the lucky recipient will be at your mercy, but there’s more to cock-sucking than merely sucking.

Knowing the techniques: using the hands, locating erogenous zones and stimulating them with hands, tongue, and lips, and knowing how to deepthroat are the basics every woman needs in order to be able to perform the art of sucking dick better than the average woman.

However, to become a woman who can worship a cock better and more passionately than most women, you need to adjust your motivations, you need to adjust your mindset.

As a seasoned fellatio addict - someone who sucked cock countless times, I’d love to share my view of how the real blowjob queen acts, performs, and what are her internal motivations.

Let’s start with the very basics - location.

Whilst lighting candles and playing soft music sounds dreamy, it’s not always possible. Time doesn’t always allow for long, lingering evenings of cock worship and sometimes it has to be fast and dirty rather than slow and tender!

The most important part here is to make sure you feel comfortable in your surroundings.

Whether at home or elsewhere, a blowjob queen knows finding a quiet, private place will allow her to do her best work.

Thrill-seekers might prefer to opt for something more risqué, with the possibility of being discovered adding to the excitement. If you’re going to go rogue, take care – if a disapproving member of the public stumbles upon your oral adventure they might not appreciate your sauciness. 

An experienced blowjob queen knows you don’t need to get naked to give or receive a blowjob.

She is able to perform and present herself and her skill visually both stripped naked in a private place or fully clothed in a public place.

The same goes for the receiver, she can perform with her man fully clothed or just with the undies pulled down, for fast and easy cock access.

Additionally, getting the mood to the point where she wants it to be - requires dirty talk.

A queen of the cock knows how to arouse a man and bring him close to the point of combustion solely by using words.

And she knows there is no need for deep thoughts and elaborate sentences—a simple description of how and where she is going to touch him, letting him know exactly how she is going to worship his cock, telling him his cock looks great, glorious, how it looks delicious, how thick it looks, etc… is more than enough.

Another essential skill in a dicksucking queen’s repertoire is a visual act. One knows how to use and deploy visual stimuli. By using eyes, eye contact, facial expression, and body positioning, she sets herself up from the rest.

She knows that licking the shaft looks much sexier if the tongue is pushed wide out and the area tongue is covering is big as it can be.

She knows that men consider the visual impact of being on her knees and licking along the shaft much hotter if she turns her head back and uses her eyes to make eye contact with him.

A well-gifted, experienced blowjob queen knows about the importance of posture.

Spreading your thighs while kneeling or squatting demonstrates confidence. 

Straightening your back puts your breasts on display which is ridiculously hot and seductive for the man.

She knows that if the man has placed himself in a seat and she is kneeling in front of him, assuming an ass-up doggy style position will give the man a glorious view of her ass all while presenting the main action of her hands and mouth in the foreground.

Knowing that presenting the body is of crucial importance and how to present the body in different ways and position is a dick-sucking essential every blowjob queen has to master in order to maximize the impact, experience, eye contact, and everything else.

Once you’ve assumed the position and the posture, it is time to suck and worship that cock. 

Wherever and however you choose to do the deed, you’re going to need to use the right technique. 

A blowjob mistress doesn’t dive straight in, she knows there’s plenty of time to get to grips with sucking cock. 

Instead, she starts slowly and builds up the sexual tension with plenty of kissing and caressing.  Lips are the obvious choice but don’t forget other erogenous zones such as the neck, shoulders, and ears. 

Stimulate the inner thighs, and groin area with your hands, tongue, lips, and mouth, and then progress to the penis. When it comes to the actual blow job, variety works well. A mix of light flicks of the tongue and long deep sucks will provide oodles of pleasure. 

You can use your whole tongue to lick up and down the shaft and use the tip of your tongue to gently tease the tip and the frenulum. Tickling the highly sensitive frenulum (the V-shaped piece of skin on the underside of the head) will stimulate and tease. 

Place your lips over the shaft and move your head back and forth, sucking and licking the shaft whilst it’s firmly in your mouth. I find having a mouthful can be tricky, so I take the occasional break, alternating cock sucking with licking and using my hands to gently tug and arouse. 

A true dicksucking expert knows that speed is another crucial variable. Slowly licking the shaft upwards, with her head turned back, intense eye contact, and showing as much of her tongue as possible creates a more intense surrounding and a sexier visual perception.

Don’t be afraid to practice your technique - it’s time to put that dildo to good use.

If you’re confident In what you’re doing you’re more likely to enjoy the experience, and you’ll feel sexier too. 

Another great cock sucking secret is how to include sucking and slurping noises as well as spitting. 

Appropriate verbal and visual performance and appropriate technique combined can make one’s experience of a blowjob much more intense and arousing.

Here is the crucial fact every blowjob mistress knows: A perfectly executed blowjob with tremendous deepthroating, cocksucking, ball-licking, and handwork will be boring if the visual and/or the use of noise is poorly implemented. 

On the other hand, a poorly executed blowjob with a horrible or poor variety of techniques used can be experienced as amazing one if you show enthusiasm, and intense passion, use different noises and loads of spit to express your actions, and are aware of how to present your body and deliver a hell of a performance.

A queen of dick-sucking that wants to achieve legendary status needs to be able to provide on all fronts, whether it‘s a proper technique or visual performance.

Include watching porn in your practice sessions. Porn can be a great inspiration resource. You’ll notice that men get insanely turned on if they’re getting a show and a great show includes a visual performance and various arousing noises. 

The best blowjobs are given by women who love what they do

When you’re actually delivering the blowjob you might find yourself fretting about your style – are you licking and sucking too hard or too delicately? Are you making too much noise? Are you being too slurpy and sloppy? Try not to overthink it, you can usually tell if your partner is having fun by the noises they are making and their body language. When you tilt your face up for that all-important eye contact take a peek – chances are they are having a great time!

The question is, are you?

The best, legendary blowjobs are given by women who love what they do.

They do it for their sexual pleasure. 

That is the secret.

They love to worship a man‘s cock because it makes them feel powerful, desired, and horny. 

That mindset, that motivation, that goal is what differentiates legendary, good, average, and bad blowjobs.

Honing your cock-sucking skills will raise you above the average and bring you close to the top, however, not until you start deriving sexual pleasure from giving them, you are going to achieve legendary status.

The following are the crucial facets of the right mindset needed to become the legendary cock-sucker: Do it for your own pleasure, never be satisfied with average performance, and always aim to deliver the best experience possible.

Learning how to read his emotions will also take you a long way. Remember and take notes of the things he enjoys. Slow, passionate, visual blowjobs? Hard and fast? A mix of techniques, speeds, and positions?

And most importantly, never do techniques or performances you don’t like or consider a turn-on.

A blowjob queen is a queen because she knows all the tricks and loves to suck dick in every possible way, and every blowjob is based primarily on her kinks and turn-ons and only secondary on his wishes and desires.

Me personally? I love to worship cock. 

I love to please my man every time in the best way possible because watching his reactions and how he goes nuts when I worship his cock by showing him how much I enjoy being his cock-hungry slut that uses all kinds of different techniques and visual entertainment. 

I am eager to give him the most legendary, most enthusiastic, hottest experience possible. 

That way I show him how much I love worshipping him and working that delicious dick, drenched in loads of throat spit with my hands, my greedy tongue, or my mouth. 

Whenever I greedily smack, slurp, suck or gag on that cock my wide-opened, sparkling eyes look up at his body aiming to look deep into his soul.

Loud, wet sounds of my greedy mouth working that precious cock I crave so much and how my assurance that I can’t wait until I finally beg for a big load of cum again, which turns my man on hard as fuck, and the reactions I get from him is causing my pussy to get dripping wet.

Seeing him getting turned on by the way I worship his cock, turns me on even harder.