Why is hair-pulling sexy?
This can be explained from two different perspectives that in the end work together in making hair-pulling one sex act.
The simple act of pulling one’s hair encourages that person to surrender to pleasure while at the same time, putting the other partner in a position of control over that person.
As an act, hair-pulling expresses desire at that moment and it also expresses dominance.
Aside from the ‘’obvious’’ psychological aspects, there are physiological aspects that make it hot.
Pulling one’s hair tugs on their hair follicles, which activates the nerve endings at the back of the neck.
Hair pulling can also trigger The Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) in your brain which works in favor of pleasure.
How to properly pull one’s hair?
When it comes to pulling their hair during sex- there is definitely a right way to do it and a wrong way to do it.
ALWAYS pull from the roots, never from the ends
ABSOLUTELY NO abrupt tugs
Pull large parts chunks of one’s hair
Don’t overdo it as it will lose its magic
‘’Best place’’ to grab their heir is base of the neck
Try slowly moving your hand up their neck before firmly taking their hair
Is everybody into hair-pulling?
No, no, and no.
Talk to your partner and see if they might like it. Don’t assume, always ask first.
Did you find out something new today? Do you pull hair or like your hair being pulled?